Learning about compromise
Young Georgians and Abkhaz outside Stormont during a visit to Northern Ireland
Young Georgians and Abkhaz visit Belfast
In October 2009 Conciliation Resources took six young Georgians and Abkhaz involved in our youth dialogue initiative to Northern Ireland.
Meetings with community leaders, youth groups and politicians from both sides gave them insights into peacemaking there, and ideas for reconciling their own conflict.
Such contact is rarely possible across the Georgian-Abkhaz divide. It has become even more difficult since the brief war involving Russia and Georgia in August 2008.
The visit formed part of our ongoing work to break down the growing stereotypes and misconceptions in both societies. Keeping communication channels open is vital.
Understanding the ‘other side’
Those involved sometimes hear painful and difficult statements from their peers. But they learn to appreciate the different concerns and try to understand each other’s views.
“One Abkhaz said he is in favour of Russian troops, because he can sleep without fear of Georgian attack,” said one young Georgian. “It’s difficult to listen to such words, but I understand him, because we all are human beings and we all have the same feelings. Nobody wants war.”
Many also fear being considered traitors for meeting ‘the other side’ and trying to raise difficult issues.
“I really would like to see changes in my society as well as my government in this respect - I don’t want to have a fear of being judged by my own society or feel guilty for being engaged with Georgians,” said one young Abkhaz man.
After a week in Belfast and London all the Georgians and Abkhaz agreed on the need to build societies that respect different cultures and views and where everyone enjoys equal rights. Understanding the needs and fears of those on ‘the other side’ is the key to their societies arriving at a compromise that works for everyone and leads to lasting peace and stability.
“In Northern Ireland compromise has become an accepted part of political culture,” said one. “Unfortunately at the moment we are too far from this, but we need to get there in both societies. Otherwise we won’t move forward."
Read the full report of the study visit.
